I thought it would be appropriate to share one of my favorite photos of Sam and Bridget, on this special day for sweethearts. If there has ever been a young couple meant to be together, it's these two.
This photo, although I didn't know it at the time, was the last time I could hold onto any semblance of my control of his life. This is the photo I took of Sam and Bridget before they drove off to their new life in Oregon. I was saying goodbye, crying, and the look Sam was giving me in this picture is just so him ... a slight smile, soulful eyes, and a thumbs up to me for encouragement. I was glad he had his own dreams, and someone to share them with, but I selfishly wanted him to stay in Arkansas.
Although the reason is gut-wrenching, I have been given a gift that few mothers ever receive. In the last month, I have watched the literal transition as Bridget took my place as the most important female in my son's life. I witnessed her devotion, and his vulnerability, firsthand. When he needed someone to hold his hand, it was Bridget who brought him comfort. When he was afraid, Bridget soothed him. When he needed a caregiver, she happily accepted the role.
And, it makes my heart happy. I will gladly stand aside, and watch this sweet union from my appropriate place. My son has found his soulmate, and I cherish her as well.
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